Self talk

Remembered a line from one of my blog post Addiction Redefined ‘We have to accept that love doesn’t give us the license to own a person’

Yes.. so License to own (kaash hota). Then who am I to change him. why I want him to change for me.. just for me.. I want this only because I love him. Am I becoming selfish.. yes you can say that.I am selfish.


Let’s analyse. I love him. I EXPECT him to change in few things. Expectations hurt, so they did, am no different. But isn’t this also true that loving someone will automatically give rise to expectations ?? You expect from your loved ones only, not from a you ??

‘Love but don’t expect’..hmm another learning ..but is that so easy.. I doubt.. I toh can’t do this.

Ohh Yeaass..’unconditional love’..I will love without any condition.  but does that mean I would let him do ‘not good’ things ??

I love-I expect-Expectation hurts-I love with no expectation-I can’t see  his bad-I love again-I expect again. Such a vicious circle..where is the end of this ??

P.S. Take this as my way of expression. No negatives please.

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