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Sweet Surprise for Sweet Friends


YouMakeMeWIN

Blogadda has given us all a great opportunity to honour fellow bloggers. I was a very reserved and introvert kind of girl. Well i still am, but now in the process of coming out of the closet.

Not many people and my friends know that i blog. I started my blog BL0g@NaMi, in July 2012  just to connect myself to my own thoughts, and then slowly to others, like minded people.

There are not a lot of people who made me a blogger, but just two non-blogger friends. But there are many, who inspires me and influenced me so positively that i am going to be a full time blogger now. Here i am nominating them for #WIN15

I used to share my thoughts on facebook, then two of my friends “Sangeeta Mishra Jha” and “Abhijeet Zade” encouraged me. Yes i got inspired by these two guys, only when i started my own blog way back in 2012. Initially it was more of a crazy thought “Mera bhi blog he” 😛 being a computer freak i am always fancied this. So i started and i still laugh on my first ever post. These two friends of mine are not bloggers and even don’t know each other. i can’t tag them here or nominate them. But just felt to let them know that #YouMakeMeWIN. They are the reason i have a blog today !! Thanks San, Thanks Abhijeet 🙂

Well, so my blog has started, but then being in full time job it was not that easy to take out time to write post. i was more of a part time blogger. But now, when we are shifted to Goa i have plenty of time, so i quit my job and started as a full time blogger. And this is how my journey as a blogger started..

It is just a beginning.. way to go ..

So my list of nomination goes like this.. 2 non-blogger friends (mentioned above), a husband – wife, a father, a mother and an HR professional.. nice combo huh !! They all deserve to be nominated at #WIN15

Through Sangeeta only i met (virtually on facebook 😉 ) Saru Singhal of “Words” .”WOW !! Ye sochti kaha se he” was and always is, my first reaction to each of her posts. She is an awesome poetess and a great writer.

Next is Alok Singhal of “The Learning Curve He is the man who can make you smile at your deepest down. Apart from humour he also is a nice writer and as his blog name suggests, his every post gives us learning. You can see both husband’s-wife’s blogs complimenting each other 😛

Then comes the Father – Ajay Pai of “My Emotions  i just love this man’s word power. I actually have to use dictionary to understand his poems. He depicts the easiest thing in the most complicated words.  A father who is clearly reflected in his writings.

Next comes Parul Kashyap Thakur of “Happiness And Food . wonderful blog she has and i love how she blogs on current topics regularly. Truly an HR who related everything to food – food for thoughts.

The Mother – Anamika Agnihotri of “The Bespectacled Mother. She is simple in her all ways. In writing and looks. She writes simple things about her and her son. A mother who is clearly reflected in her writings.

Once again thanks a lot to all of you for influencing me knowingly or unknowingly. You all make me Write, Inspire and Network. YouMakeMeWIN. I am nominating you for #WIN15.

I’m blogging for #YouMakeMeWIN to honour a blogger who has influenced me and deserves to be nominated at WIN15

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Pehla Pehla Pyar !!


This poem won my first ever #WOW badge on BlogAdda.

Being in love is awesome
it may not or may blossom
never force to fall in love
it will come naturally though

i never believed
in love at first sight
but when it happened
it happened with all its might

he saw me, and i stared
just a “hi” is what we uttered
smile on both faces
and heartbeat races

aha !! is it love ??
yes !! the unspoken true love
my first love is no past
without any certainty
it is my present
and will last for eternity.

love

This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.

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It’s YOUR OWN life !! Live Good.


In one of my earlier posts Addiction Redefined i mentioned about 90 / 10 Principle. Seriously, it slipped off my mind until a friend requested it and me too came across situations which remind me of this.  So here it goes..90/10 Principle by Stephen Covey

It will change your life
(or at least, the way you react to situations)

We cannot stop the car from breaking down.
The plane will be arriving late, which throws our whole schedule off.
A driver may cut us off in the traffic.

You CAN control 90% of your life – by how you react to the 10% you can’t control. You yourself can influence your attitudes, behaviors, thoughts, and words.

 

We are into the habit of reacting almost immediately to what was happening around without any attempt to control our reactions in any way. Because of that, our reactions were negative and destructive.

 

 Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 Principle.

If someone says something negative about you, do not be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You do not have to let the negative comments affect you. React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, or getting stressed out.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in the traffic?
Do you lose your temper?
Pound on the steering wheel?
Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket?
Who cares if you arrive 10 seconds later at work?
Why let the cars ruin your drive?

Remember the 90/10 Principle and don’t worry about it.

You are told you lost your job.
Why lose sleep and get irritated?
It will not work out.
Use your worrying energy and time to find a new job.

The plane is late. It is going to mangle your schedule for the day.
Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant?
She has no control over what is going on.
It will just make things worse.
Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger, why stress out?

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Supposed To Be A One Liner


Make your heart and mind learn to have no expectations. Train them for everything but expectation. Expectation hurts badly, very badly. Except expectation or accept hurts. Your life, your choice. Live wisely !!

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A Different New Year Wish !!


Another 365 days gone and here comes a fresher new year to be exploited for all the opportunities you missed in last 365 days. Wish you all Another Happier New Year…hope 2014 was better and happier than 2013, a bit if not much.. 😉

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See this is all within us. It’s only we, who can make ourselves happy. So come on, this time again lets commit ourselves for another happier and better new year. Welcome this 2015 with all the enthusiasm and positive spirit, with the jazba (Passion) of making everything better and happier which wouldn’t worked in 2014. We got another year to do the undid things, to try the untried risks and to live a even better and happier life.

Why am i repeating “better and happier” phrase again and again?? Yeah, many of you must be thinking that the author has gone nuts. But guys trust me positive energy can’t be controlled. Once you realize its power, its overwhelming. You then, just want others to be benefited and you try hard to do that. We can focus on things we want to focus on. It is within us. If we decide to be better and happier in everything we do, mark my words, results will be awesome..simply AWESOME.

Sorry guys, i won’t be wishing great WORDY wishes like everlasting happiness, peace prosperity blah..blah..&..blah. i will simply wish, for everyone out there, a “better” and “happier’ life on a day to day basis. i wish that every passing day will be better than the previous one gone, at least in one aspect. Let the new year brings new hope, new trusts, new people and new life in your day to day work. New people will bring you new realizations, a “must” factor for a happier life. 😉

New Year WishesP.S. For new members  related past post – https://namiwise.wordpress.com/2013/01/03/happier-new-year/

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My Eternal Gratitude !!


If there is one thing that this going year 2014 taught me, is that letting go is okay.

Not everyone and everything is meant to stay in your life forever. And coming to this realization, helps you find a way to go with the flow of life. Circumstances, People and Feelings come and go, but you can’t let all these stop you from doing what is best for you.

When you finally accept that it’s OK not to have answers to everything and it’s OK not to be perfect, you realize that feeling confused is a normal part of what it is to be a human being. While living with the flow of life, all the pieces will naturally fall in place. So don’t get confused and live the life, don’t create hurdles.

Thanks to those who hated me, they made me stronger.
Thanks to those who left me, they made me realize that nothing lasts forever.
Thanks to those who stayed, they showed me true relations.
Thanks to those who loved me, they made my heart smile.
Thanks to those who cared, they made me feel important.
Thanks to those who were worried about me, they let me know that they actually cared.
Thanks to all those who entered my life, they made me who I am today.

Just wanna thank you all for being there in my life, whatever I might have meant to you.

Thanks to everything & everyone out there.

gratitude

 

 

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This is She


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She has secrets you’ll never know or understand.

She appears so strong on the outside,
but on the inside her world is spinning upside down.
She is smiling and standing tall to the outer world,
she is crying and breaking down in her inner world.

She appears so happy to her mates,
but alone, she shares her tears with her pillow.
She knows not to get her hopes up,
as they always come crashing down.
She has heard it all before & felt it all,
She has experienced more than her fair share.

One touch & she’ll flinch
One harsh word & she’ll cry
One bad moment, & she’ll break down

She trusts no one, because the people she has, hurt her & leave her to pick up the pieces
She believes no one, because the people she has, lie & betray her.
So for now she’ll keep to herself  & pretend everything is fine, when everything is wrong

I know this girl, because this girl…

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The Only Aid


 

 

 

lockFalling, disappointment, sadness, feeling down, blahblabla….. all negatives are also the part of life.

My happiness is in my hands. No one but i am the maker of my mood, my day, my life. Why and how the hell anyone out there can hit me inside?? No one can. No one has that right.

 
RISE every time i fall, i IGNORE & KICK OUT disappointments, i CHEER UP in sadness, i SMILE every time i am down. i Say – “Yes !! i can change my mood, and i WILL.”  CRY??.. yes i cry hard but then i SMILE HARDER. yohooo… i am happy, i made myself happy and i promise to be back again from lows, in lesser efforts..

The key to my mood, my feelings is in my hands, i know better which way to unlock. 😉

Happiness

 

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I Trust YOU !!


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Let no negative thoughts come in. Emit only and only positive energy.

Gradually you will begin to feel the power of trusting.

Don’t be afraid. Overcome your fear.

Trust till the end. If you don’t trust it is the end anyway.

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HOPE v/s FREEDOM


 

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ANOTHER CONTRARY TALK

 

Losing All Hope is Freedom.

Never Lose Hope.

 

Read somewhere – “Never lose hope”. Also read “losing all hope is freedom”. How contradictory !! This is the same controversial thing I have posted some time back. Another adds up to the list 😉

Namiwise –

  1. “Losing All Hope is Freedom”, then why is it said that – “Never Lose Hope” ??
  2. Why  “Never Lose Hope” if  “Losing All Hope is Freedom” ??

HOPE – very vague term. Can be used, twisted & turned person to person. So much subjective in nature. It is our state of mind that matters. Hope binds us (hope is bandhan). In general hope means desire. And desire gives rise to bondages. If I want to be free, there should not be any hope. If we want to be free from bondages, we have to obviously lose hope (bondages). When there is hope without any desire than it may be called “faith”. Faith should again be desireless. There should not be any craving no aversion. This is the bottom line. Whether I hope, not hope, desire, not desire, have faith or don’t have faith , in every situation my very state of mind should be equanimous. Then it will work.

Never lose hope is sort of craving and when it becomes intense you will never get what you are not losing hope for. And at that very stage, the last stage, your mind will get desire free and you lose all and feel free. AND ..AND…YES THEN..WHOOSSHH… here it appears what you no more hope for. THIS IS THE REAL LAW OF NATURE.

Never lose hope and keep doing efforts but never let it overtake your state of mind of calmness and at the end of the day when you lose all hope you will be FREE. FREE like you were born anew, free as you were on the first day.. with no hope, no desire, no faith ..nothing. just calm and equanimous.

“Never Lose Hope” will keep me going. Will keep me alive. that is necessary for living and “Losing All Hope” is actual and real freedom and is very necessary for DYING. Will help me die.

 

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P.S.

That means hope binds us, hope is bandhan. If I want to be free then there should not be any hope but faith. Yes faith is better than hope. Hope is asakti bhara.. hope is desire.. but faith is vishwas, vishwas is always greater than desire.

Faith is desireless. If there is desire then it comes craving, when craving comes then the thought does not remain pure, but it gets spoiled by the ego, by desire.

Faith sets us free from desire, from hope. Hope is craving, faith is bhakti.

If I hope I cannot be free, if I want to be free I have to lose all hope.

Set myself free from hope. No hopes means no desire, no desire means no craving, means no tension means free.

Faith is trust, devotion. Hope is expectation, and expectation hurts..always.

Lose hope but gain faith.

Strong faith can beat all hopes.

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Here’s To The Woman !!


You are the best

Here’s to the woman..

Who knows where she’s going, and will keep on until she gets there.

Who knows not only what she wants from life, but she has to offer in return.

Here’s to the woman, who is loyal to family and friends.

Who expects no more from others, than she is willing to give.

Who gives the gifts of her thoughtfulness

Who shows her caring with a word of support, her understanding with a smile.

Here’s to A woman who brings joy to others… JUST BY BEING HERSELF..

Happy International Woman Day

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HO..HO..HO..


Good will, success and happiness be with you this Christmas!!

Merry Christmas

Christmas is a time to reflect

On all that God has done

It’s not a matter of what we get,

But the birth of the Holy one

It’s not about gifts

With ribbons and bows,

Or Christmas trees,

Tinsel and mistletoe

The Christmas gift given to us,

Is Jesus Christ’s

Gift of love.

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Simple & Straight


Put the past behind you and move on. Keep running.

Sometimes it will stop raining, sun will come up.

I couldn’t say when.

just keep running

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Back Again !!


It is easy to start, much easier to end. What matters is how long it sustained.

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