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“मेरे तुम”


करने को तो
कर लूँ हर काम अकेले ही
यूँ तो
जीत लूँ दुनिया अकेले ही
पर एक तुम जो ज़रा साथ दो
तो क्या बात है !!

 

एक तुम जो ज़रा साथ दो..
क्यों ??
बस यूँही
अच्छा लगता है
जब तुम साथ होते हो
सुकून मिलता है
आश्वस्त रहता है दिल
घबराता नहीं
जब तुम मेरे साथ हो !!

 

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It’s YOUR OWN life !! Live Good.


In one of my earlier posts Addiction Redefined i mentioned about 90 / 10 Principle. Seriously, it slipped off my mind until a friend requested it and me too came across situations which remind me of this.  So here it goes..90/10 Principle by Stephen Covey

It will change your life
(or at least, the way you react to situations)

We cannot stop the car from breaking down.
The plane will be arriving late, which throws our whole schedule off.
A driver may cut us off in the traffic.

You CAN control 90% of your life – by how you react to the 10% you can’t control. You yourself can influence your attitudes, behaviors, thoughts, and words.

 

We are into the habit of reacting almost immediately to what was happening around without any attempt to control our reactions in any way. Because of that, our reactions were negative and destructive.

 

 Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 Principle.

If someone says something negative about you, do not be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You do not have to let the negative comments affect you. React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, or getting stressed out.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in the traffic?
Do you lose your temper?
Pound on the steering wheel?
Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket?
Who cares if you arrive 10 seconds later at work?
Why let the cars ruin your drive?

Remember the 90/10 Principle and don’t worry about it.

You are told you lost your job.
Why lose sleep and get irritated?
It will not work out.
Use your worrying energy and time to find a new job.

The plane is late. It is going to mangle your schedule for the day.
Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant?
She has no control over what is going on.
It will just make things worse.
Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger, why stress out?

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Supposed To Be A One Liner


Make your heart and mind learn to have no expectations. Train them for everything but expectation. Expectation hurts badly, very badly. Except expectation or accept hurts. Your life, your choice. Live wisely !!

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A Different New Year Wish !!


Another 365 days gone and here comes a fresher new year to be exploited for all the opportunities you missed in last 365 days. Wish you all Another Happier New Year…hope 2014 was better and happier than 2013, a bit if not much.. 😉

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See this is all within us. It’s only we, who can make ourselves happy. So come on, this time again lets commit ourselves for another happier and better new year. Welcome this 2015 with all the enthusiasm and positive spirit, with the jazba (Passion) of making everything better and happier which wouldn’t worked in 2014. We got another year to do the undid things, to try the untried risks and to live a even better and happier life.

Why am i repeating “better and happier” phrase again and again?? Yeah, many of you must be thinking that the author has gone nuts. But guys trust me positive energy can’t be controlled. Once you realize its power, its overwhelming. You then, just want others to be benefited and you try hard to do that. We can focus on things we want to focus on. It is within us. If we decide to be better and happier in everything we do, mark my words, results will be awesome..simply AWESOME.

Sorry guys, i won’t be wishing great WORDY wishes like everlasting happiness, peace prosperity blah..blah..&..blah. i will simply wish, for everyone out there, a “better” and “happier’ life on a day to day basis. i wish that every passing day will be better than the previous one gone, at least in one aspect. Let the new year brings new hope, new trusts, new people and new life in your day to day work. New people will bring you new realizations, a “must” factor for a happier life. 😉

New Year WishesP.S. For new members  related past post – https://namiwise.wordpress.com/2013/01/03/happier-new-year/

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This is She


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She has secrets you’ll never know or understand.

She appears so strong on the outside,
but on the inside her world is spinning upside down.
She is smiling and standing tall to the outer world,
she is crying and breaking down in her inner world.

She appears so happy to her mates,
but alone, she shares her tears with her pillow.
She knows not to get her hopes up,
as they always come crashing down.
She has heard it all before & felt it all,
She has experienced more than her fair share.

One touch & she’ll flinch
One harsh word & she’ll cry
One bad moment, & she’ll break down

She trusts no one, because the people she has, hurt her & leave her to pick up the pieces
She believes no one, because the people she has, lie & betray her.
So for now she’ll keep to herself  & pretend everything is fine, when everything is wrong

I know this girl, because this girl…

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The Only Aid


 

 

 

lockFalling, disappointment, sadness, feeling down, blahblabla….. all negatives are also the part of life.

My happiness is in my hands. No one but i am the maker of my mood, my day, my life. Why and how the hell anyone out there can hit me inside?? No one can. No one has that right.

 
RISE every time i fall, i IGNORE & KICK OUT disappointments, i CHEER UP in sadness, i SMILE every time i am down. i Say – “Yes !! i can change my mood, and i WILL.”  CRY??.. yes i cry hard but then i SMILE HARDER. yohooo… i am happy, i made myself happy and i promise to be back again from lows, in lesser efforts..

The key to my mood, my feelings is in my hands, i know better which way to unlock. 😉

Happiness

 

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I Trust YOU !!


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Let no negative thoughts come in. Emit only and only positive energy.

Gradually you will begin to feel the power of trusting.

Don’t be afraid. Overcome your fear.

Trust till the end. If you don’t trust it is the end anyway.

negative

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Here’s To The Woman !!


You are the best

Here’s to the woman..

Who knows where she’s going, and will keep on until she gets there.

Who knows not only what she wants from life, but she has to offer in return.

Here’s to the woman, who is loyal to family and friends.

Who expects no more from others, than she is willing to give.

Who gives the gifts of her thoughtfulness

Who shows her caring with a word of support, her understanding with a smile.

Here’s to A woman who brings joy to others… JUST BY BEING HERSELF..

Happy International Woman Day

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Are You BUSY??


Its not enough to be BUSY…but BE EASY..

Easy at  work without tension.

Easy with others in approach.

Easy with oneself for inner peace.

Have a BE EASY LIFE.. 🙂

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आत्म बोध


हुई किसी से एक मुलाकात

बन के मीत हम ने बिताये दिन रात

बांटे सारे सुख- दुःख, रोये- हँसे साथ साथ

 

फिर अहिस्ता- अहिस्ता कुछ होने लगा

बहुत कुछ जो था, खोने लगा

मैं उससे, वो मुझसे होने लगे खफ़ा

 

तराशती लहरें जैसे चट्टानों को

दिल अब करता है बिछड़ जाने को

अरसा बीत गया मुस्कुराने को

 

मैंने पूछा –

“तूने ये दर्द क्यों दिया मुझे”

उत्तर मिला –

“मैं ज़िन्दगी | जीना सिखा रही हूँ तुझे”

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Hey Life, Thank you !!


 rise fall

 Every struggle in your life has shaped you into the person you are today.

 stronger

Be thankful for hard times, they have made you stronger and a better person

be-thankful

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पापाजी / Papaji


father daughter

सालों से सिर्फ़ तस्वीर में देखा जिन्हें

है वों आज मेरे सामने

जानता है अंतरमन, यह सच नहीं

फिर भी मैं खुश हूँ |

कितना कुछ है कहना

है सुनना आवाज़

पर यह क्या ??

Continue reading

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You !!


 

Yes you

Always do what You are afraid to do in life because, to the questions of life You are the answer..

and to the problems of life You are the solution..

Its all in “YOU”

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A Negative Poem


I need, I want, I have to,

A force holds me though.

It’s not a good sign,

Only a cause for a sigh.

I don’t want to degrade,

I can’t either direct. 

I know what I suppose to do,

But it  is not I am heading to.

What the hell happening to me,

This is not the real me.

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